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Nov 25, 2022Liked by Jaime Hoerricks, PhD

So true. And so many societal cliche's derail adult help for strugglers "Oh, it's his choice to live in a messy house....." Mental health system does not include mental health. It's not just "guilt" or "shame" that makes sloppy people bad - it's diffiulty with too many choices, and living in simpler setting helps avoid the distractions of constant tidying, or constantly losing what one wants. In contrast, simplified, organized setting helps daily functioning and sense of competence and even joy of decorating.

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I identify with fixing one's resources so they support you -or if helping someone, help them do that. Don't just tell them, "it's your choice" - of course it is. But keeping one's resources organized is a huge help, for the time we are ready to make choices. Nothing wrong with cheering oneself up by staying solvent or sober or tidy enough to enjoy and use one's surroundings in ways that bring us cheer.

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Is that question mark a comment?

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